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You are Southern so therefore clueless about how attactive patronize women. Its an Loooking curse Fod y'all lol. And my motorcycle, forget about it, works every time. In what situation in the world would you need to take off your shirt and then mention or show your motorcycle and car? This is so damn random and weird. I hope you are 18 years old, because if you are over 21 and making these statements, it is just sad.
Of course, Looking for smart attractive woman girl who would be impressed by this sounds like a real winner! This must be true. Cause when it attractove to compliments, we females never get told things like "you're so ambitious I love it" or something like that. It can be a compliment pertaining to anything else but it's never career related. S You were gone too long, missed your posts!!! While being sweet won't wwoman ruin a man's chances with women in some cases it willneither will it draw her in.
If a man Looking for smart attractive woman successful, confident, ambitious, attractive etc. If his personality and accomplishments are there, a woman will only be charmed by his Sexy seeking casual sex West Jordan suffice to say he's not babytalk-ish.
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If a man is truly confident, he's not constantly afraid of not being manly enough. I couldn't have said it better myself. A man who is truly accomplished and has a sweet side to him is truly the perfect package to a woman. Why Looking for smart attractive woman you think women always fall for the lead man in romantic comedies.
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While I agree to a certain extent with what you are saying, I think sweetness matters a lot less than you claim. Women are always saying it is so important, but their actions consistently prove otherwise. It isn't at all suprising to me that the example you chose is a fictional one.
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If they did the latter, they woudln't sell. They then, in turn, help to create or perpetuate those ideals, and very few women or men stop to ask themselves whether or not they are a reflection of reality. Yes, Hugh Grant makes you woosie and increases your heart-rate; but how much of that is because he is a supplicating push-over who gives in to the courted woman's every wish, and how much Looking for smart attractive woman that is because of the romantic setting, the background music, and most importantly, the wish that you could have the best of both worlds - Meet local singles Crystal Lake Illinois, a man who is strong enough that he isn't swayed by his emotions, but is also swayed so much by his emotions that he can't control himself around you.
That turned into a bit of a rant Again, I see what you are saying, but I think it only applies in very small degrees, such that the reality is closer to what Looking for smart attractive woman describe in the post than what you see in romantic comedies. It applies in very high degrees not small Andrew.
If you were to Looking for smart attractive woman have the opportunity to spy in on a conversation among women on womaan topic of our ideal man, 'kindness' would be very much high up on the list. I'm not saying a smothering kindness, but we want to be treated well.
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Great post by the way. Keep more like them coming! I guess we just disagree about how important it is. New reader here, and going thru your posts like fire.
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I had to add my two cents to the interesting dialogue down here. In my opinion, 1 sweetness is entirely different from but easily mistaken for kindness by both sexes and 2 kindness is just as important as the typical alpha masculine traits I mean, if there are certain qualities that attract men to Looking for smart attractive woman women and another set that keeps them committed, then why should the process be any different for women?
But not all men are naturally sweet and romantic, so the absence of these does not necessarily Covington looking for nsa friend with benefits he's not being real.
The trick smary to determine who is putting on an act, and who is being true to his masculine core and making no appology for it. My husband athractive not in the slightest romantic or sweet. But that was the smarg him, and he wasn't going to pretend to be attractvie.
I loved that about him. So it could be also said 'If a man is truly confident, he's not afraid of being manly. I agree, though I would actually take your comment one step further and say that MOST men are not naturally sweet and romantic. I believe most men start out as naturally Looking for smart attractive woman foor romantic BEFORE they begin dating and having sex with multiple women. I think doing so desensitizes them and makes them Looking for smart attractive woman Horny older women Claxton area jaded about women, love and relationships.
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I think years ago men were more naturally sweet and romantic but only revealing that side to their sweethearts because both men and women were expected to reserve sex for marriage. Reading poetry and literature written by men back then shows a rather romanticized and idealized conception Looking for smart attractive woman the female sex.
Men definitely are naturally sweet and romantic, perhaps even more so than women. However, most men realize sooner or later that being sweet and romantic doesn't attract most women. In Sexo en Laax free quantities, it Looking for smart attractive woman help you keep a woman.
But before you can keep a woman, you have to get a woman. Anonymous on May 19th I can't help but wonder if you may have conflated some cause and effect. I can't speak for other generations, but for those that were born in the '80s: I think there's a good chance that your experiences with these jaded men with multiple sex partners are after they've invested a lot of time and effort quashing their inner romantic because of encountering years of scorn for being "a nice guy.Sexy Black Girls Anderson Indiana
I'd be willing to bet that a lot of them went through years of being ignored for being "too nice. What you dont seem to get is being an asshole gets a GIRL. So if you simply want to get laid all the time and of course eventually turn into 'that creep' in the club then you act the asshole around very young girls who are inexperienced, insecure and dont know how to see through bullshit, plus are socialised to be Lookinb meaning they are afraid to hurt your feelings by saying 'no' and will often give in to sex.
Not all, obviously, but many dont believe it, there was a very big discussion on Jezebel and many women spoke of Looking for smart attractive woman in' through fear of being insulted and hurting his feelings, but only as girls. Once the girl becomes a woman, she values kindness more and understands that sex is actually better Lady looking sex tonight Childs the decent man who really cares that she has a good time.
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So it all works out, perhaps. The 'alphas' go after the damaged girls, probably producing damaged children that cant be aborted due to the US' Looking for smart attractive woman abortion bans. You can send kids to learn creationism at school! What a great nation! The smart women get the decent men. What you so childishly term 'betas'.
Only in the USA would being a decent, kind, loving and affectionate male be seen as weak and pitiful, when it is clear to the rest of the globe those are strengths fog make for supportive fathers and strong children. Only the USA would insult a atractive for going to Harvard.
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And this whole wman and all the rest are too depressing. Women of America, leave. Or marry your betas and make alpha a term of abuse. Beta guys, start being proud Looking for smart attractive woman it. You'll get to marry! You'll pass on your genes!
Smar the alphas are having hair transplants and trying to roofie 19 year olds, you'll have a solid family and be surrounded by love! I am a lawyer and I know so many women like this.